9_09..................Drug: Aphrodisiacs

Again with the primal need to procreate but these days the reasons for sex are by far more recreational than they have ever been and seem to continue in this direction ad infinitum as this is the mainstay not only of a culture but also of a species.

It has always been popular and will always be popular as long as we have bodies that hold sensations that we can satisfy and please ourselves and each other with.

Looking at the reason behind the aphrodisiac is the key in this place due to the fact that seen from an individual and personal prospective you do not actually need another person around you to have sex.

What people find as an aphrodisiac as mentioned in an earlier chapter is basically anything that stimulates them to a point of arousal or even sparks the thought of the possibility of having sex.

I could give a physical list including oysters, sauerkraut, horny goats weed, Viagra and a host of other herbs and items that are assisting in the libido functions for a quicker or more effective reaction for the activity of sex.

It doesn't take much research to find them for yourselves just turn on the television and there you are around every 5-10 minutes.

As far as dealing with sex and the self we tend to feel better or more fulfilled if we can have the prospect of having sex with another person.

Whether or not that act actually occurs is actually secondary to the idea that it has the possibility of occurring and this is where the fantasy comes racing to the rescue and telling the story of how it happens.

Some call it a vile vice of the lower and baser nature and some acclaim the kundalini energies to be that which will set you free from your earthly bonds and unify you with an ultimate inner power of immense proportions.

I feel that if the energies are directed to serve a purpose then the essence has not been wasted and agree with the fact that very potent energies are stirred with it's occurrence.

I'm not saying you should have a battle plan prior to a romp in the hay to help your niece get her new braces and there are many that can do no more than appreciate the moment heart and soul and thought for this time is alluding and difficult and would distract from the pleasure

How people more commonly treat those energies varies to the degree of viewpoints on the planet, in my opinion there is no actual common equations although there are more that are common such as the itch or the physical need for gratification itself.

There is the immediate attraction that occurs and when acted on can be very exhilarating by meeting someone new and sharing close intimate relations with them.

Then there is the sacred bonding within the union of marriage as a more noble reason for sex with the hopes of future continued procreation for the family and extended lineage.

Then also there are those that want to see how many ways a person can dress up and use a sex organ, without actually cutting it off. 

Not really obsessed but just totally open to about anything for the sake of sex being fun or recreational not to mention a great way to make money for the less inhibited.

From what I have seen for the most part people use sex to find that certain someone that considers them special enough to only have sex with them and having sex with someone else would be an offense to their union (married or not).